What If You’re Not Lost and Just Between Chapters?

There are seasons in life when everything slows down.

Edition #012

You’re no longer where you used to be, but you’re not quite where you’re going either. It’s a strange, quiet space filled with uncertainty, discomfort, and questions. And because we’re so conditioned to keep moving, this pause can feel like failure. Like confusion. Like something is wrong.

But what if this in-between isn’t something to escape?
What if it’s a sacred pause?

🕯️ The In-Between Is Where Spirit Speaks Softly

We live in a world that teaches us to measure our worth by progress: always becoming, achieving, pushing forward. So when we find ourselves in a moment where nothing seems to be happening, when we can’t “do” or “fix” our way through, we panic. We label it as stuck. Blocked. Lost.

But from Spirit’s perspective, this space is fertile ground. It’s where your identity softens, your soul exhales, and the noise begins to fade. The in-between is a place of transformation, not punishment. It’s where the masks fall away and your true voice can finally be heard.

Spirit doesn’t shout. It whispers.
And often, it waits for the moment you become quiet enough to truly listen.

🌱 You’re Not Blocked, You’re Becoming

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, uninspired, or unsure of who you are lately - that doesn’t mean something is broken. It means something is shifting. You’re shedding a layer that no longer fits. Outgrowing a version of yourself you’ve maybe carried for years.

This space between what was and what will be isn’t a block. It’s a bridge. A soul transition. And just because you can’t put it into words doesn’t mean it’s not working. Sometimes your deepest healing happens in silence, in confusion, in stillness. This is where your soul catches up with your life.

🧘 How to Anchor Yourself in the Pause

You don’t have to rush through this season. You don’t need to explain it to others, or even fully understand it yourself. But there are gentle ways to stay grounded in the waiting:

1. Create space for stillness
You don’t need a long meditation or spiritual routine. Just 5 minutes of quiet - a few deep breaths, a moment of noticing is enough. Stillness isn’t empty; it’s sacred. And it creates space for Spirit to enter.

2. Speak to Spirit out loud
You don’t need rituals or candles to connect. Just your voice and your truth. Ask questions. Say what hurts. Whisper your fears. Spirit isn’t waiting for the perfect prayer, just for your honesty.

3. Resist the urge to fix
We’re taught to patch up pain quickly, to find answers fast. But not every season is about solutions. Some are meant for softening, surrendering, and simply being with what is. Let your healing unfold without demanding clarity from it.

🤍 You’re Not Behind. You’re on Holy Ground.

This space you’re in the pause, the not-knowing, the in-between is not a detour. It’s a vital part of your journey. It may not look productive from the outside, but something deep is happening. You’re not broken. You’re not failing. You’re not late. You’re becoming.

And even if you can’t feel it yet, Spirit is right here with you.

When You’re Ready…

You don’t have to rush. You don’t have to force your way forward. But when you feel ready, there are places that will hold you while you unfold.

✨ Come sit with us inside the Spirit Lounge - a sacred space for sensitive souls to reconnect with themselves and with Spirit.
🎟️ Or join me at one of my upcoming events, where we invite Spirit to meet us just as we are - open, human, healing.

There’s deep medicine in the pause.
And you were never walking it alone.